Tuesday, November 27, 2007

The Vow of Simplicity

Sunday, 25 November 2007
(Creative Teaching using Crossword Puzzle by brother Nai Kyn)

Definition of simplicity:

(Down)
Simplicity means…

  1. Unity of heart and singleness of purpose (Matt 6: 22)


  2. Joy in God’s good creation - Oscar Wilde once said that people do not value sunsets because they cannot pay for them. Not so for us!


  3. Contentment and trust (Phil. 4: 6)


  4. Freedom from covetousness (Acts 20: 33)


  5. Modesty and temperance in all things – our lives should be marked by voluntary abstinence in the midst of extravagant luxury (Titus 1:8)


  6. To receive material provision gratefully - We are not rigid ascetics who cannot abide a land flowing with milk and honey. Rather, we rejoice in these gracious provisions from the heart of God.


  7. Using money without abusing money – We use money within the confines of a properly disciplined spiritual life.


  8. Availability - We have the time and energy to response to human need.


  9. Giving joyfully and generously (2 Cor. 8: 5)



Richard Foster’s 10 Controlling Principles on our attitudes towards money:

(Across)


  1. Buy things for their usefulness rather than their status (practicality)


  2. Reject anything that is producing an addiction in you (given over habitually to)


  3. Develop a habit of giving things away (practice that is hard to give up)


  4. Refuse to be propagandized by the custodians of modern gadgetry (devices/tools)


  5. Learn to enjoy things without owning them (possessing)


  6. Develop a deeper appreciation for creation (setting high value on)


  7. Look with a healthy skepticism at all “buy now, pay later schemes (another time)


  8. Obey Jesus’ instructions about plain, honest speech (do not lie for gain)


  9. Reject anything that will breed the oppression of others (treat with harshness or injustice)


  10. Shun whatever would distract you from your main goal (take attention away)






    Monday, November 26, 2007

    November Birthdays



    Nai Kyn - 18 November



    Melissa - 19 November


    Selvi - 22 November



    Aaron - 25 November


    Chocolate birthday cake - baked by Aunty Dolly

    Monday, November 19, 2007

    Nai Kyn's and Selvi's Birthday Celebration



    The GG celebrated the birthday of Selvi and Nai Kyn at Yuen Steamboat Restaurant on Sunday, 18 November 2007

    Any Treasures for Me

    (By brother Nai Kyn)


    “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” (Matthew 6: 19 – 21)

    On Sunday (11 November 2007) we were being challenged again to rethink about the way we used our money and other possessions we have. Two bible passages have been used as the basis of our discussion: Matthew 6: 19 – 21, 24 and Luke 16: 1 – 9, 13. Due to the limitation of space, I would like to just share a little thought on the passage found in Matthew (Maybe we can consider a sequel for the passage from Luke if this one successfully makes it to the ‘Box Office’).

    The passage in Matthew is one that many of us are familiar with where it was recorded for us as part of the famous sermon that Jesus gave to his disciples known as the Sermon on the Mount. This is the passage where Jesus was teaching about the right attitude the disciples should have with regards to their earthly possessions.

    It is interesting to note here that Jesus did not ask his disciples to quit storing up treasures. There is nothing wrong with the attitude of desiring something that is good and valuable. In fact, I believe that God has programmed within us the ability to appreciate what is valuable and to differentiate it from what is not. The problem we have today is that our ‘software’ has been corrupted by a virus called ‘sin’. ‘Sin’ invaded our system and confuses our judgment on the value we place on the things around us. Throughout history, many have tried to fix this ‘bug’ by introducing negation ‘anti-virus’. As a result, various schools of asceticism that emphasize on denial and disassociation with what has been mistakenly interpreted as valuable are born. The result is promising but somehow imperfect.

    In saying “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, … But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, …”, Jesus was pointing to us what the real problem is. Many of us including myself spent very little time pondering about the kind of treasures we could inherit in heaven so much so that our attitude toward these treasures is one that is of indifference. Some of us resort to think that doing so is a waste of time since such an idea is so abstract and unfathomable. The situation is further complicated since the bible does not provide clear indication of what these treasures are like (or are we just been fed by an unbalance diet of our church education system that put so little emphasis on the teaching of such nature?).

    I want to think that when I do my best to please God on this side of heaven, God will be truly pleased. I also know that one cannot do this without first checking his or her motives because God sees the heart rather than just our actions. Nevertheless, I am not satisfied to believe that when God is pleased with me He does not use heavenly treasures to reward me. Neither do I believe that all of us will be rewarded equally in heaven regardless of how we have served Him here on earth. This really goes against the teaching I have come across in the various parts of the bible (Matthew 24: 45 – 51; Matthew 25: 14 – 30; 1 Cor 3: 10 – 15).

    Therefore, do I really see myself storing up treasures in heaven? Or am I saying that all I need to do is abstain from storing up treasures on earth but settle for a mediocre workmanship on church ministry and leave to God on whatever heavenly treasures He chose to reward me since I have totally no idea and do not want to spend too much time thinking if there are really such thing as treasures in heaven?

    Finally, how do I apply the truth that says, “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also”?

    I arrive at the conclusion that if I really believe that there are such thing as treasures in heaven and that not everyone will be rewarded equally, I better make sure that each time I serve I give 100% of my commitment to it. This of course would have to be done on top of my pure motive and intimate relationship with God. May our heart be so enthralled by the treasures He has prepared for us in heaven!

    Monday, August 27, 2007

    Introduction to Money, Sex and Power

    The Challenge of the Disciplined Life
    Christian Reflections on
    Money, Sex & Power (MSP)

    By Nai Kyn
    (Based on the book by Richard Foster)



    Why Money, Sex & Power (MSP)

    • Inseparably intertwined – interlacing connections

    • Need is great – fresh articulation of what it means to live faithfully with regard to MSP

    • Historically, spiritual revivals have been accompanied by a clear, bold response to the issues of MSP – ethically potent spiritual experience



    Social Implications

    • MONEY

      • Social Dimension - Business

      • Negative Implications - Oppression

      • Positive Implications - Blessing

    • SEX

      • Social Dimension - Marriage

      • Negative Implications - Alienation

      • Positive Implications - Intimacy

    • POWER

      • Social Dimension - Government

      • Negative Implications - Tyranny

      • Positive Implications - Liberty



    Transformed by God’s Power

    • Inherently within the institutional structures themselves are destructive forces that need to be transformed by the power of God if they are to benefit human society
      (Ephesians 6: 12)



    • Historic Vows

      • Monastic Movement (Renouncement)

        • MONEY

          • Poverty - Detachment

        • SEX

          • Chastity - Vacancy

        • POWER

          • Obedience - Service

      • Puritan Movement

        • MONEY

          • Industry - Sanctity of work/Vocation is a calling; Moderation in work/Anti-workaholic

        • SEX

          • Faithfulness - Companionship

        • POWER

          • Order - Mutual commitment of support & accountability

      • Our Time?

        • MONEY

          • Reject the modern mania for wealth without a morbid asceticism

        • SEX

          • Affirming sexuality without encouraging promiscuity

        • POWER

          • Bringing authority and submission into proper balance



      An Unholy Trinity
      1 John 2: 15 – 17

      • “the craving of the sinful man”

        • Greed

      • “the lust of his eyes”

        • Lust

      • “the boasting of what he has and does”

        • Pride



      ‘Road-blocks’ Ahead?

      • Double-mindedness (Matthew 19: 16 – 22)

      • Confusion due to immaturity (Ephesians 4: 14)

      • Blinded spiritually (2 Corinthians 4: 4)



      Questions for Discussion

      • Has the Church given adequate, or inadequate, instruction on the issues of MSP?

      • What can we learn from both the Monastic Vows and Puritan Vows on the issues of MSP?

      • Of the three ‘road-blocks’ mentioned, which ones are you struggling with w.r.t the issues of MSP?





    First Combined Meeting

    Dolly's and Seng Chor's Growth Group (GG) Meeting had the first combined meeting on Sunday, 26 August 2007 at the home of Roy and Selvi. We are now officially one GG.

    Dolly baked bread pudding and cinnamon roll for breakfast. It was superbly delicious!





    Aaron led the ice breaker. Each one had to choose a person from the previous GG and share what we like most about our previous GG. Then, one person from each pair shared to the whole group. Interesting.

    Next, Selvi led the worship with the theme - My King. The Lord's Name was glorified and we were blessed.

    Our first mini-sermon on Money, Sex and Power was conducted by Nai Kyn. It was a good introduction - simple and concise. We ended with a time of discussion and prayer.


    Check out the cool PowerPoint slides!




    Praise the Lord!

    DSC Growth Group

    "We combine to give birth..."

    Nai Kyn

    (On the merging of Dolly's and Seng Chor's Growth Group)

    Thursday, August 23, 2007

    Sexuality and Spirituality

    By Lai Nai Kyn
    Bandar Utama Chapel
    15 July 2007


    The Reality of Our Sexuality
    • Our Sexuality is a Vital Part of God’s Creation Plan
    • Our Sexuality reflects the Image of God

    The Celebration of Our Sexuality
    • LOVE’S INTENSITY & RESTRAINT
    • LOVE’S MUTUALITY & PERMANENCE

    The Distortions of Our Sexuality
    • Pornography
    • Sadism and Masochism
    • Sexism
    • Homosexuality

    Our Response
    • Truth
    • Grace (Genesis 3: 21)
    • God’s Power (P.H.D.)

    Tuesday, August 21, 2007

    Wealth Creation and the Christian

    A series on Money, Sex and Power

    AARON YONG
    Bandar Utama Chapel
    19 August 2007

    Sermon Outline
     What is Wealth Creation?
     What does the bible has to say about wealth creation?
     How should a Christian respond and approach wealth.
     Living the 5 Principles.
     Some practical ideas for BUC

    What is Wealth Creation?
    Creating wealth from nothing?
    Start with what you already have and make more from it?
    Return on investments or increasing your passive income?
    Multiple sources of income?

    If Wealth Creation is your focus,
    If wealth is the centre of your life,
    you choose friends because of their economic status or influence.
    If wealth is the centre of your life,
    your self worth is determined by your net financial worth.
    If wealth is the centre of your life,
    your family becomes a liability and an economic drain to you.

    Quotes on Wealth
    "Money has not made a man happy yet, nor will it.
    The more a man has, the more he wants.”
    - Benjamin Franklin


    3 School of Thoughts about Wealth
     Wealth as an Offence to Faith
     Wealth as an Obstacle to Faith
     Wealth as an Outcome of Faith

    A Relevant and Integrated Approach to Wealth Creation
     Taking Responsibility
     God is still the source of our wealth
     Show accountability
     Magnify God’s glory through all your wealth creation activities.
     But Godliness actually is a means of great gain when accompanied by contentment.

    Principle # 1:
    We were created in His image to be the care taker of the earth and that includes “wealth”.
    Know your responsibility.

    Principle # 2:
    “Seek first His Kingdom and His righteousness, and all these shall be given unto you as well.”
    Matthew 6:33
    Know God’s Will in your life.

    Principle # 3:
    Be a Cheerful Giver.
    “Each man should give what he has decided in His heart to give, not reluctantly nor under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”
    2 Corinthians 9:7

    Principle # 4:
    Be Accountable.
    The hardest thing to do is to be in charge of wealth. We are accountable for the wealth that God has entrusted to us.

    Principle # 5:
    Be a Wealth Creator for Kingdom Business.
    Create wealth to sustain those in ministry and use this as a platform for Kingdom business.

    Wednesday, August 15, 2007

    CHRISTIAN RESPONSE TO MONEY, SEX & POWER

    By Elder Wong Wing Cheong
    5 August 2007
    Antioch Centre

    Problem / need / question:
     We want to love God
     Struggling with loving God and loving this world
     Are we trapped? How can we cope?
     You can be free


    PURPOSE:
     Encouragement
     to diligently explore, consider and take action
     on what God is saying
     on the issues of Money, Sex and Power;
     rejecting the destructive influences and
     faithfully take on the challenge to embrace and multiply their creative attributes
     as intended by our Creator God.


    Why Money, Sex & Power?
     Inseparable in every day life – It’s real
     Issues inseparably inter-twined
     Upheaval in our culture
     Our bold responses  Spiritual Revival
     It’s related to Radical Discipleship


    The Destructive Potential of Money – 1 Timothy 6:6-10
    6 But godliness with contentment is great gain. 7 For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. 8 But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. 9 People who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge men into ruin and destruction. 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many grieves.


    The Destructive Potential of Sex – Galatians 5:19-21
    19 The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20 idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21 and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.


    The Destructive Potential of Power – Acts 8:18-24
     18 When Simon saw that the Spirit was given at the laying on of the apostles' hands, he offered them money 19 and said, "Give me also this ability so that everyone on whom I lay my hands may receive the Holy Spirit."
     20 Peter answered: "May your money perish with you, because you thought you could buy the gift of God with money! 21 You have no part or share in this ministry, because your heart is not right before God. 22 Repent of this wickedness and pray to the Lord. Perhaps he will forgive you for having such a thought in your heart. 23 For I see that you are full of bitterness and captive to sin."
     24 Then Simon answered, "Pray to the Lord for me so that nothing you have said may happen to me."


    An Unholy Trinity – 1 John 2:15-17
    15 Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 16 For everything in the world—the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does—comes not from the Father but from the world. 17 The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever.


    Do not love the world or anything in the world
     It’s a Command
     "Do not love the world or the things in the world."
     First argument: Love for the World Pushes Out Love for the Father
     Second argument: The World Is Passing Away with Its Lusts
     Third argument: The man who does the will of God lives forever



    Applications
     Vows of simplicity, fidelity & service
     God prospers me not to raise my standard of living, but to raise my standard of giving.
     Resurrected power of Jesus to free those under the destructive powers of Money, Sex & Power


    Isaiah 61

    The Year of the LORD's Favor
     1 The Spirit of the Sovereign LORD is on me,
    because the LORD has anointed me
    to preach good news to the poor.
    He has sent me to bind up the broken hearted,
    to proclaim freedom for the captives
    and release from darkness for the prisoners,

     2 to proclaim the year of the LORD's favor
    ......


    A person who is attached to riches, who lives with the worry of, is actually very poor. If this person put his money at the service of others, then he is rich, very rich. He is rich owes nothing.


    God is rich emptied himself. Nowadays people want to live with the poor but they want to be free to dispose things as they wish. To have this freedom is to be rich.